Looking for a sexy older man

It is a fantasy of mine to be with a sexy older man. I am a 37yr old bbw who is 5'6, with curly short hair and glasses. I would like to find someone not too far from me bcuz it will make it difficult to connect. Im looking for someone with manners and knows how to be polite and hold a conversation. Yes im looking for something sexual but also looking for good conversation. I really like how older men pay more attention to women and actually care if we are satisfied too. If things go good id like it to be an ongoing thing. I am married and he knows im looking and is ok with it. He too is looking for an older woman. So its a huge plus if ur in a relationship and shes into swinging. If ur interested please let me know and tell me ur age, location and send a picture. Please no married men unless your wife is into swinging and dont send me nude pics. Nude or dic pics will be automatically deleted. I dont care what your member looks like and i find that so disrespectful. Im talking to you not your member. Looking forward to ur reply.