Looking for a special lady

Let’s skip the games: I’m 50, happily married, and we are openly polyamorous. Everything is above board, communicative, and transparent.
I’m looking for an authentic connection—a friend first, with chemistry and benefits whenever we both feel comfortable. I’m interested in something real and steady rather than a fleeting hookup. In return, I bring stability, honest conversation, and a dry sense of humor that tends to cause unexpected laughing fits.
Major bonus: I can actually cook. Like, real, incredible food—so you definitely won’t be surviving on takeout or microwave experiments around me.
Send me a note if that sounds like the kind of dynamic you’re looking for.